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by Leanne Antaya (Author), Mekenzi Blalock (Joint Author), Michael O'Connor (Foreword by)
Trey's childhood was golden. Backyard laughter, messy ice cream smiles, family picnics under wide open skies. It was the kind of beginning you'd expect to find in heartfelt stories of
resilience, where every page carries the weight of innocence and light. But life does not always follow the script. Somewhere along the way, Trey met a different kind of muse, one wrapped in smoke and promises. Like in powerful works such as Mermaid: A Memoir of Resilience or Black and Blue: A Memoir of Racism and Resilience, the change came quietly. Drugs did not storm in; they crept in, whispering escape and adventure, until one choice turned into a path he could not leave behind. The first hit felt like lightning, fast, euphoric, blinding. But lightning does not last. It turned to thunder, and soon he was trapped in a storm he could not outrun. His laughter grew hollow. His eyes, once so bright, dimmed into a murky green. What unfolded could have been pulled from the raw honesty of Hostage: A Memoir of Terrorism Trauma and Resilience, yet it was our own story, lived in real time, without the safety of turning a page.
Hope became our anchor. Fragile, yes, but louder than despair. It carried us through chaos, silence, and the terrifying night of an overdose when everything nearly ended. That moment marked us forever, the kind of lived truth found in books like Bounce: A Memoir of Resilience and In My Own Moccasins: A Memoir of Resilience. Stories of survival remind us that resilience is not quiet, it is fierce, and in our case, it was a mother's determination to stand in the fire and not move.
Somehow, Trey came back. Not untouched. Not the same. But alive. And I learned then that hope is relentless. It is the same strength you see in A Holocaust Memoir of Love and
Resilience and in Scattered Smothered and Covered: A Memoir of Resilience. This journey reveals the unshakable truth of love, endurance, and faith that refuses to let go.
Changing Eyes is messy, real, and raw. It is our story of addiction, family, and unbreakable love. Like Every Shot Counts: A Memoir of Resilience, it proves that every story, whether tragic, hopeful, or unexpected, carries the power to change how we see the world and how we hold on to one another.
