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by Emma Stevens (Author)
What if living a life true to yourself meant unraveling everything you were taught to believe?
In Choosing to Breathe, Emma Stevens returns to The Gathering Place to continue her powerful exploration of loss, identity, and healing. As an adult adoptee raised to feel grateful rather than allowed to grieve, Emma was shaped by silence, expectation, and deeply rooted trauma. Yet beneath the layers of survival, resilient parts of her self waited to be seen.
Through raw, reflective storytelling and guided by Internal Family Systems (IFS) work, Emma confronts the costs of emotional suppression and the courage required to live with integrity. She explores how trauma fragments identity-and how compassion, curiosity, and breath can help reclaim what was lost. Moving beyond survival, she asks what it truly means to live intentionally, with honesty and self-trust.
This memoir speaks to anyone who has ever felt compelled to perform a version of themselves to belong, to stay safe, or to be loved. With insight, vulnerability, and grace, Choosing to Breathe invites readers to question inherited narratives, honor buried grief, and make space for their whole selves.
This is not just a story of healing-it is an invitation to pause, to breathe, and to reclaim the life that is truly yours.
