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by Ari Sytner (Author)
Every couple hits bumps in the road. But how do you stay connected and build the future you've always wanted, together?
After years of sitting with couples through their hardest seasons, Dr. Ari Sytner, PhD, LCSW, Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, created Building Our Future, Volume 5 of the Couples Conversations(TM) series: 300 therapist-crafted questions that help you see beyond past struggles, deepen gratitude for what you already have, and turn your dreams into a shared plan.
"I absolutely love this book. It is an incredibly useful handbook for couples to build the essential aspects of their relationship together."
- Dr. John Gottman, world-renowned relationship researcher
These are not generic icebreakers. They are warm, scientifically grounded conversations that guide you back to each other when life has pulled you onto autopilot.
Open the book and you will find:- 300 guided questions across three chapters: deepening gratitude and appreciation, navigating hardships together, and building dreams for your future
- Warm clinical framing before each section, so the heavier conversations feel safe instead of scary
- A no-pressure format for date night, a long drive, or a few quiet minutes after the kids are asleep
- Checkboxes and reflection space to turn a good conversation into something you actually live
Whether you are newly dating, decades into marriage, or walking through a season you did not choose, these conversations meet you where you are. The perfect gift for engagements, weddings, anniversaries, and Valentine's Day.
This is Volume 5 of the Couples Conversations(TM) series: start right here, no earlier volume needed, then explore Volumes 1 through 4 covering foundation, communication, romance, and values.
"I was truly amazed by this book. Dialogue sparked by these questions will be rewarding for both newly formed and long-term couples."
- Dr. Pepper Schwartz, Sociologist, Relationship Expert, and TV host of Married at First Sight
You are not waiting for connection to happen. You are choosing to build it. Scroll up, grab your copy, and start the conversation tonight.
