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by Ryn MacDonald (Author), Natalia Nikonova (Illustrator)
It's Not Because of Me is a gentle, heartfelt picture book that helps young children understand divorce and separation, and lets them know it's not their fault.
Through tender storytelling, gentle humour, and beautifully expressive illustrations, this comforting children's book about divorce explores the very real feelings of self-blame that many kids experience when their parents separate. As Lucy's parents lovingly guide her back to safety with reassurance and love, children are reminded of something powerful - they are not to blame.
This book will help children:
- Understand that divorce is never their fault
- Feel safe, seen, and supported
- Recognise and name big feelings
- Begin to release self-blame and anxiety
This book will support grown-ups who are:
- Looking for a gentle and age-appropriate way to talk about divorce
- Trying to ease guilt, fear, or confusion in a young child
- Wanting to create emotional safety, connection, and calm
- Working as a counsellor, psychologist, educator, or family support specialist
This book is the first book in the Lucy the Little Lion series - a growing collection of psychology-informed picture books designed to support children through big emotional experiences. Grounded in lived experience and backed by child development principles, these stories are gentle, inclusive, and developmentally appropriate.
Perfect for: bedtime reading, classrooms, therapy sessions, and as a gift for children experiencing separation or divorce.
