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by Solomon Veganis (Author)
Stop Letting Insecurities Hold You Back, Others Don't Think About You Nearly as Much as You think About Yourself Have you ever noticed that the feelings of jealousy and envy towards others' possessions, esteem, and relationships don't motivate you to improve yourself? More often than not, the default reaction for such circumstances to a normal person would be to plot and devise how to bring those people down to our level. "I don't want my own business, you'll never be as successful as if you had a normal job like me," "I don't care if you spend your free time with your friends instead of me, my hobbies are more important anyway," "I don't really think they actually like you better than me, after all you're not even that good looking." Guess what? These thought patterns prevent you from striving. If the world was always mediocre it would never improve. You feel jealous because you recognize this person actually DOES have something over you. Does that make you feel uncomfortable? It should. If we never felt uncomfortable with our complacency, we would never reach. These feelings demonstrate one thing: you fear loss. Loss of opportunity, value, and character. Jealousy: Overcome the Battle for Codependence, Trust, Esteem, and Emotion in Love and Friendships by Planting Seeds will demonstrate to you via its multitude of insight, self-reflection questions, and analogous parables that you can hack your current approach of facing the outside world by prioritizing which weeds to yank that you don't uproot your whole garden, while concurrently planting the buds of self-love and appreciation for what you have. Doing so will give you character, make up for any deficiency in your relationships and life you perceive, and flip the script on your self-defeatism. If you're not the best looking, most successful, or most loved, don't you wish you could stop worrying about it? If any of the preceding struck a chord for you, consider how the following approaches would relieve you of this massive burden:
- A subconscious is like a garden: if the soil is too acidic nothing will flourish, if the seeds are not healthy the flowers won't mature, if the weeds grow too big they will overshadow the beauty, if all there is are beautiful flowers it will make the world a better place
- Inspection not all weeds are evil, for a dandelion amongst roses can be a positive, while some weeds when pulled can uproot the healthy flowers around them. Let's evaluate the right weeds to pull
- Definity is this weed one of jealousy, disgust, or is it maybe envy? Is it undesirable or acceptable? Are the surrounding positive feelings interwoven or can it be plucked without tearing up the garden?
- Identity where did this weed grow from, and is it really unattractive? Is it deep-seated and old, or still in the fresh topsoil of the new situations you've encountered?
- Approach armed with the knowledge of consequence and reward, let's determine our strategy to remove the weed so the flowers can grow, or let it remain and see it for the value it has if let be.
- Planting love the seeds, love the soil, accept what is, and the plants will take care of you. Realize beauty is in your head, but belief is manifested in the real world. Let's change your perspective to see the beauty.
- This is the beginning of what you'll discover in Jealousy: Overcome the Battle for Codependence, Trust, Esteem, and Emotion in Love and Friendships by Planting Seeds; ever section is replete with perspective, ideas, and motivations to shove you into the realm of clear consciousness
