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by Kimberlee Roth (Author), Randi Kreger (Foreword by)
A step-by-step recovery guide for adult children raised by a parent with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Growing up with a borderline personality disorder (BPD) parent can leave deep and lasting emotional wounds. Many adult children of borderline parents remember walking on eggshells around a volatile, manipulative, or unpredictable mother or father--never knowing what might trigger anger, withdrawal, or emotional chaos.
If you were raised by a borderline mother or father, you may still struggle with guilt, shame, self-doubt, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, or lingering trauma from childhood. In many families affected by BPD, children experience parentification--being forced into the role of caretaker for a parent whose emotional needs overshadow their own.
Surviving a Borderline Parent is the first step-by-step guide written specifically for adult children of parents with borderline personality disorder. This compassionate and practical book helps you understand how growing up in a dysfunctional and emotionally unstable family environment shapes your thoughts, relationships, and sense of self--and how you can begin healing.
In this guide, you'll learn how to:
- Understand the impact of growing up with a borderline personality disorder parent
- Recognize patterns of manipulation, emotional instability, and controlling behavior
- Heal from childhood trauma, neglect, and parentification
- Reduce guilt, shame, and self-doubt rooted in growing up with a toxic parent
- Build healthier boundaries and relationships as an adult
- Decide whether--and how--to confront a borderline parent about their behavior
- Begin recovery through therapy, validation, and practical coping strategies
Drawing on insights from psychotherapy and approaches such as dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), this book offers clear tools to help you process anger, grief, depression, and confusion while reclaiming your emotional independence.
If you spent your childhood walking on eggshells around a borderline parent, constantly trying to manage someone else's unpredictable emotions, this book provides the understanding and validation you may have never received. Most importantly, it offers a path toward healing from a toxic parent, recovering from childhood trauma, and building a life defined by stability, self-respect, and healthier relationships.
You cannot change the past--but you can change the patterns it left behind.
Author Biography
Kimberlee Roth is a health writer and journalist. She has written about Borderline Personality Disorder and topics related to physical and emotional well being for numerous newspapers and magazines, including the Chicago Tribune.
Freda Friedman, Ph.D., LCSW, is in private practice and a member of the Phoenix Institute in Chicago, Illinois. For the past twenty years, her primary clinical focus has been with Borderline Personality Disorder, providing treatment, education, support and consultation to people suffering from the disorder, their families and health care professionals working with them. She is on the board of several professional health care organizations and has developed BPD programs in New York and Chicago.
