{"product_id":"the-anxious-avoidant-trap-why-you-keep-reaching-for-someone-who-keeps-pulling-away-and-how-to-break-the-cycle-together-paperback-1","title":"The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why You Keep Reaching for Someone Who Keeps Pulling Away - and How to Break the Cycle Together - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eY. Bruck\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYou're caught in a pattern.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOne of you reaches. The other pulls away. And the harder you reach, the further they go - until you're both exhausted, each convinced you're the one being left behind.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt's called the \u003cb\u003eanxious-avoidant cycle\u003c\/b\u003e, and it's one of the most common - and most misunderstood - patterns in modern love. It is \u003ci\u003enot\u003c\/i\u003e proof that you chose the wrong person. It's two nervous systems doing exactly what they each learned to do.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn this warm, science-backed guide, Y Bruck turns decades of attachment research - from Bowlby and Ainsworth to today's couples science - into something you can actually use tonight. No jargon. No blame. No pretending change is quick or easy. Just a clear map of the dance you're stuck in, and a real way out.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eInside, you'll learn how to: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSee the cycle clearly - and catch it in the moment, before it spirals\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnderstand what your partner is \u003ci\u003ereally\u003c\/i\u003e feeling underneath the distance (or the pressure)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCalm your own alarm instead of feeding it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRebuild closeness without losing yourself\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTell the difference between a hard pattern and a relationship you should leave\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eHonest about the science (including the myths this genre loves to sell), compassionate to \u003ci\u003eboth\u003c\/i\u003e partners, and genuinely hopeful - because the research is clear: this pattern can change.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHonest science. Real hope. A new dance.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Anxious-Avoidant Trap is Book 1 in the Attachment in Love series - a book for every way our patterns meet.\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 244\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.61 x 8.5 x 5.5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 09, 2026\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":46735173091525,"sku":"9798991998635","price":28.04,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0757\/6718\/5605\/files\/FGxArslU3m9798991998635_5dae5a38-1a8f-40ba-9578-1ffb50d4ff30.webp?v=1786783907","url":"https:\/\/selloorium.com\/products\/the-anxious-avoidant-trap-why-you-keep-reaching-for-someone-who-keeps-pulling-away-and-how-to-break-the-cycle-together-paperback-1","provider":"Selloorium","version":"1.0","type":"link"}