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by Saran Almond (Author)
Possibly one of the hardest things to do in life is letting go of people you care about. It seems like letting go would be easier when those very people are breaking your heart. When we process loss as being equal to failure it makes perfect sense that we'd naturally fight for relationships, even when they make us sad. We may do this to win someone over, to get that old thing back, to make someone happy, to keep someone happy, or to just not be judged. Whether it's a friendship, family relationship, or a romantic relationship; making the decision to let go is rarely an easy one. Often, we're holding on to things that no longer serve us because it's "easier," less drama, it's comfortably uncomfortable or you don't want to hurt or disappoint anyone. For the most part we've all been there (attempting to spare someone's feelings) but what about you. What about your feelings and your peace of mind? What about YOU? In this journey we call life, we only get one chance, no do overs. You must make the hard choices and have the difficult conversations now; in order to have healthier relationships and to show up as the best version of yourself...for yourself. Every day you meet people and encounter situations that influence your views on life, your morals, your values, your character, and the type of person you will ultimately become. It's up to you to determine who to let in or not, who adds value to your life, who disturbs your peace, and when relationships have run their course. In this book, you will self-assess your role in relationships, and learn how to place different values on friendships. This reading will help you to better appreciate the people that come and go, the ones that are here to stay, and the good in saying goodbye to the ones you you can no longer hold on to.
This book was written to help ease the pain of guilt and calm the fear that often emerges when dealing with matters of the heart. You are encouraged to celebrate taking the courageous steps involved with letting go, embracing peace, and choosing happy. When relationships come to end, it doesn't have to be sad. There is good in goodbye.
