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by Christy Whitman (Foreword by), Melody Chadamoyo (Author)
Are you lost in your relationship? Or Are you looking for love, true love?Maybe you have settled for "good enough" because you think you can't ask for more from love? You can't seem to rekindle the passion or you've suffered from a broken heart or trauma that made you close off your heart to protect it.You might be searching for that elusive special someone but you're unsure what to do or you don't have the confidence to try? If you answered yes to any of that this book is for you.Inside relationship expert, author and coach Melody Chadamoyo shares her own love story, a story of love, passion, heartache, loss, self-discovery, and the lessons she's learned along the way.You'll discover how to apply these lessons in a step by step way and how you can apply them to not only find lasting love, true love but also in a way that enables you to love the most important person in your life - yourself.Split into 4 easy parts: In Part 1 Melody shares her story of why love is not enough to make a marriage last. After marrying the man of her dreams 2 years later she was extremely unhappy in her and seriously thinking about divorce. She blamed her husband for her unhappiness but he wouldn't or couldn't change. She decided to take responsibility for her own happiness. She joined the gym, started meeting up with friends and dancing as well as going back to reading. She discovered that she had lost herself and had no idea what to do as a wife that would not make her and her husband miserable. Her realization that men and women don't see the world the same way started her on a path to learn how to have relationships with men that make them feel more intimacy and her more valued.In Part 2 the book goes deeper into the importance of practicing self-love. You can't give what you don't have so before you expect love from others need to grow in loving yourself and then share with others. What is the self and how do you ensure you love yourself? There are examples that show you some of the actions that show you're not loving yourself and when you are. Self-love means loving even the bits about you that you don't like. Loving yourself is the step towards acceptance of yourself and others. It leads to unconditional love.Part 3 shows the difference between the traditional conditional love we have been taught and the real authentic true love. Love is what makes life worthwhile. It is also a choice. Loving consciously and accepting a person for who they are is practicing true love. You need to let go of the need to control others to allow them to be whom they are meant to be. Melody shares practical ways of how you can begin to do that. Part 4 helps you take self-love and true love and marry them to create blissful and amazing relationships. You get the tools to use to build your relationships so that they thrive and full of joy.
